Wednesday, November 7, 2007

Black Women

I was thinking today about Karrine Stephens and the fact that she is now the focus of the "black woman" and what we are suppose to represent. Somehow we're suppose to see the positive in this chick and grow up striving to be like her. Don't kill the messenger, I'm just quoting what I'd read on line recently. LOL!

The only conclusion that I have been able come to is that times have changed. Why is the fact that she sleeps with stars in order to have a story to tell in her bestselling books considered greatness? Where I'm from your called a whole lot of names for being so easy and role model was never one of them. I'm 30 years old so I'm way past the looking for a role model days but it's very sad that this chick and others like her are what young black women have to look up to. She was on Oprah (yes, the same Oprah that refused to have Ice Cube on her show) talking about how she wants to be a testimony for all the young women in the world but yet a year or so later she's brought out another book telling stories of her conquest. Boooooooo!!!!!! I actually read her first book in a day but I didn't bother reading the 2nd one because I don't know anybody that bought the book so I haven't been able to borrow it from anybody. I'm not supporting that chick by buying that book with my hard earned money, I wish I could get it on bootleg instead and give the bootleg dude my money. LOL.

I'm not judgemental at all. I don't knock anybody's hustle. I never have, by all means get money BUT I don't want to see the tears later when your trying to figure out why you keep spreading your legs for money and yet you get no respect at all. I don't care what anybody says, Men DO NOT respect a chick that everybody has had, why would a dude wife a chick that's been with like 50 other dudes that he knows? It's NOT gonna happen. I don't care what he's whispering in your ear when your alone when he's around his boys they are clowning you! I have enough brothers, best male friends so I definitely know better. The craziest thing about Karrine to me is the fact that she's is honestly looking for love, her heart has been broken so many times by these industry dudes that are smashing her yet wifing somebody else. At this point she should know and understand her position. She is nothing but a jump-off! Nothing more, nothing less. If your gonna be a jump off then by all means be the best jump off that you can be but DON'T expect to be wifed, dude is not gonna hold your hand at the awards shows. LOL! I listen to her interviews, I've read some of her articles and I am constantly entertained, I read them just so I can quote them later when I'm discussing the ignorance of black women today. I need to be a motivational speaker to the young black female youth of today. I'd sit them down and teach what it means to be a real black women. Forget what they say on TV, mostly everybody in the industry is miserable anyway.

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